| Lots of research confirms that those in stable, happy relationships
with a significant other are far more likely to be happy and healthy
in themselves - so finding the perfect mate is a very worthy goal.
But, like so may other goals which we set for ourselves,
reaching them is often far harder than we want it to be, and many
of us - perhaps even most of us will lose heart and give up before
they get there.
And the reasons for failure are familiar to any life coach:
- Lack of belief in the reachability of the goal
- Failure to maintain focus in a hectic life
- Collapse of drive in the face of setbacks
- Hidden beliefs about who we are, what we might achieve and what
we deserve
That's why coaching can help give you a dramatic
boost in finding your perfect partner, and invite you to hire a
coach to help you get there; it could be a life-changing investment
from which you will never be the same again.
But if you're not ready to make that commitment,
then this new E-Course is a great way to dip your toe in the waters.
The course was written by Chris, and each of the
modules comes to you by email, with an inspirational and insightful
article and an exercise for you complete. The exercise is where
you will do the work required to free up your thinking, to discover
new things about yourself, and to use all that to make real progress
in the real world.
At the end of the course, you'll be in a much better
place.
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Your Course Tutor
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Born in 1959, I've been around the block a few times, and had
my share of relationships - good and otherwise! I've also spent
time
a
few
years outside of any partnership. It wasn't until I trained as
a coach that I realised how little control I'd exerted
on the whole process. What a waste!
In this course, I've combined my professional coaching skills with
my personal and coaching experience of the world of love
to bring you this course. I hope the modules, with their challenging
yet entertaining modules will lead you down the path to a great
new loving partnership.
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Chris Wesley
BSc(Hrs), LCA, JP |
Course Structure
1. Who Are You - Really?
In self-discovery, few answers are simple or easily found, and
very seldom are they what you assumed they would be. That's why
a life coach will help you out-perform solitary introspection
many times over.
In module 1, you'll conduct a revealing analysis of the kind
of person you are - based on your past, and your current thinking.
You will be surprised at what you discover about yourself.
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2.
Who is Your Perfect Partner?
What does your perfect partner look like - not just physically,
but in terms of personality, interests, and all the other things
which you may not even have suspected are important to you. The
exercise here will really squeeze out your deepest thoughts about
who you would really be happy with - and that's (bizarrely)
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3. Crossing Paths
Amazingly, most of us have a subtle plan. We're going
to go about our business, and hope that Mr. or Ms. Right is going
to stumble across us, and everything will fall into place.
As plans go, that's a bit too subtle.
Module three looks at how to meet your perfect
partner. From the profile you did in module two, this exercise
helps you to find ways to dramatically increase your chances of
meeting Partner Perfect.
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4. Crossing Minds
At the end of module three, you'll have a very clear set of strategies
for placing your perfect partner close by. You can and should
- start operating those strategies immediately. But what happens
if they walk in the room? How will you know it? How will they
know that you exist?
Eyelid batting and fan malarkey have many merits,
I'm sure, but as strategies for attracting and exploring others,
they can fall a bit short.
So module 4 looks at how you can spot when they're
close, and how you can interact with them to verify their credentials,
and impress them with yours. It examines the common problems in
each case, and how to tackle them.
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5. Staying Strong
The single biggest cause of failure in any human endeavour is
not lack of vision, or lack of ability - it's lack of stamina.
Somehow, our upbringing tells us "If after a few attempts,
you haven't succeeded - then it wasn't met to be", and that's
just baloney! Human history tells us that those who ultimately
succeeded went through hell and back but they just kept going.
So module five is all about attitude management
and how to stay focussed, stay positive, stay on course, stay
productive, and stay happy in light of the fact that the world
didn't role over and play dead when you snapped your fingers.
This last module contains tips and tricks to
keep you going, and in many ways, is my best attempt to provide
you with a life coach substitute!
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Course Logistics
You can take the course at your own pace, but we ask
that you complete it within two months. This gives enough focus to maintain
momentum and it means we can manage our resources effectively.
You will need an email address we can send module to,
and you'll need to be able to return exercises prepared on computer.
Courses are available in three variations to suit your preference and
pocket.
Standard
£40 |
This gets you access to the course material, one module at a time. You'll get the lowest price but you're on your own, so be careful
to complete the exercises properly and motivate yourself to get the
best from the course. |
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Silver
£80 |
You'll get the course modules, but you'll also have access
to a fully-qualified course tutor (usually the author). When you complete
your exercise, you can send them in for review by your tutor. If you've
missed a point or an opportunity, your tutor will email you and
give you another attempt. Of course, you remain in control - if you
want to move along anyway, that's fine, but this is a great way to
get far more from the course without spending heavily. |
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Gold
£220 |
With the coaching support option, after each module, you
send in the work, then arrange a full phone coaching session with
your tutor to examine the issues arising from the module. Use this
time to present your "yes, but that won't work in my situation,
because..." type arguments. This is really the only way to bring
the magic of coaching into the mix. |
What Now?
Life can sometimes be bleak. Think how much better your
life could be with a wonderful partner to share it with. You know
it's possible, because you can see couple around you all day (not always
the most uplifting experience!).
Life is a one-shot deal, and yours is happening to you
right now. Why not put down your pessimism and pick up your courage, and
let's see if we can put you on the path to a perfect partnership. You
know - you haven't really got a lot to lose!
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Find Love E-Course
5 modules to complete by email
within 60 days
£29, £49 or £199 |
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Chris Wesley
BSc(Hnrs), LCA, JP |
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