Adult Education..
- Going Back..
45-minute highly-focused phone session..
£60..
About Adult Education..
Does the idea or returning to adult education strike fear into
your heart? Many people love the idea of going out on cold winter evenings
to learn something new and exciting, but they are also terrified, and
the fear will usually win.
I know from my coaching practice that many adults feel grim at the prospect
of going back to school. Memories of their school experiences
the first time round - unpleasant memories - crowd in, and - because of
the way our brains work - those memories come with the negative emotions
they caused at the time - they tend not to be filtered through your adult
intellect - so they are raw, and they carry more power than they should
do.
As well as this abject terror, many people contemplating a return to
study feel they carry unique debilitating shortcomings which would rule
them out as a student. They feel they're no good with maths, or their
English - spelling, punctuation or vocabulary is embarrassingly poor,
or they may feel that they're just not very clever. All of these
perceptions lead these people to shy away from the prospect of a return
to education. It spells doom. It will end in tears. It's pointless, futile,
and pathetic, they say, and they say it angrily.
The Nature of Fear
But really it's all about fear, which, you may recall from articles elsewhere
on the website, stands for:
False
Expectations
Appearing
Real
In other words, the things you fear are mirages - outcomes which are
simply not credible. People resist this notion, but it's always true and
when I show them in our work together, they often spontaneously laugh
out loud. The door just fell open. They were trapping themselves.
Trust me - I Stink
| Now at about this point, many of you may be thinking
"who is this guy? How can he know what I was
like at school? I KNOW - I WAS THERE - AND I STANK AT MATHS - THAT'S
A FACT MY MATHS TEACHER CAN ATTEST TO!".
Fair enough. But - you're still wrong!
[ducks....].
You probably drive a car, you can walk and talk, you're allowed
to vote, you can tie your own shoe laces, and they let you walk
the streets alone. That tells me you have a normal intellect, and
that tells me you have the apparatus required to learn
anything you'd like to as an adult student.
So - what was all the misery about? Were you imagining those years
of classroom misery and failed exams? No - but you were
set up to fail. That wasn't about stupidity - it was about
being taught poorly - perhaps in a huge class - receiving some negative
messages about your own competence, internalising them, and then
living out the unhappy role you were given.
Teaching, like coaching, is a fine art. There's a tightrope to
be walked - between serving the client's intellect and their emotional
being. They both need very close attention or negative behavioural
loops can become established. |

A Tad Stressed?
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Where is all this going?
Of course, I'm not trying to tell you your recollections are wrong (though
they probably are exaggerated, and over-generalised - sorry!),
but I'm saying that you can have a fascinating new life as an adult student,
learning new skills and meeting new people. The things which keep you
from reaching out and grasping that new opportunity are products of your
own mind, and should not be allowed to stop you from growing.
I Can Help
| If you're contemplating a return to study after
a long break, and you're apprehensive about it, this focus-coaching
session is for you. Here's what you can expect:
- You'll complete a written exercise and submit it to me before
our session. I'll be up to speed on your situation ready for our
call.
- We can use the session to explore and dissolve your fears. As
well as cognitive analysis (seeing how bizarre your fears really
are), I have other techniques to help with managing and controlling
fear.
- If you're not sure what you want to study, we can resolve that
in our session. If this is an issue for you, then I'll be sending
you another exercise to help us sort this out.
- If you don't know how to find a course to suit you, I can help.
- If you need ongoing support to get through the application,
enrolment and initial study phases, then further coaching sessions
can be arranged at the same rate.
- If necessary, I can provide supplementary support for you on
many study topics
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Happy, Learning, Growing
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About author Chris Wesley..
I know a lot about study from all angles. I studied through my honours
degree, so I have it covered as a student.
I have an adult teaching qualification and i taught adults and teenagers
IT at Bedford College for about three years.
I have been a private tutor, teaching students in many topics and from
year 3 to adult, for a couple of years. I've also taught remedial reading.
I qualified with distinctions in the theory and practice of life coaching
from Europe's largest training organisation, and I've been employed by
that organisation to train their coaches.
I have been running my coaching practice for about five years.
I can bring all of this to bear in helping you to get your tootsies back
in the warm pond of exploration which is adult education! .. |

Chris Wesley.. |
Adult Education..
- Going Back..
45-minute highly-focused phone session..
Chris Wesley..
£60..
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